June 16, 2021

Chrysalis of Grief

When mourning becomes a time of transformation…


Watching Over Butterflies - Photo by Jessicakate Miles 
(I'm proud of Jackson, my great grandson, on launch day -JoMae)


~ A Chrysalis For Transformation ~


Some tend to feel abandoned in those early days of loss

after the rush of parting, the heart felt farewell gathering

filled with condolence, caring, memories - even laughter


A few weeks on, when hours remain empty

life too quiet without familiar conversation

too still, with even phones forgetting how to ring


When lives have all gone back to normal - all but

the bereaved (for whom normal has now died) who

are lost between what was and what one day will be


Days where all is unfamiliar, life is upside down

and it seems nothing in our world will ever be

right side up again. Days we drown in silence


Until a small spark of kindness penetrates the gloom

a smile, a card - we notice people care - and realize our

dark chrysalis, while foreign, was our needed healing place


Until Our Time to Fly


JoMae

6/9/21


My granddaughter and her children love to shelter larva found on milk weed leaves, then wait patiently as the chrysalis forms and a butterfly emerges to fly away.  


Watching Over Butterflies - Photo by Jessicakate Miles

June 03, 2021

Time

A Matter of TIME

San Francisco Parrots
Photographer: Scott Runcorn

~ Our Hours - My Minutes ~

For years, all fledglings flown

we traversed each day at a

leisurely pace armed with

quiet plans and purpose


our lives were full, framed around

each other’s schedules and long

conversations, we danced the

hours within a harmony we

largely took for granted


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Suddenly our hours were only mine

when conversation stopped and

time measured in minute steps

each minute endless silence


an empty void devoid of harmony

purpose gone - no plan in sight

save to find a way, look deep

into past lessons learned to

survive this new reality


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Time does help to heal

present time, future time

most especially, past time


which holds strength to build on

courage learned before - life long

lessons stored for such a time as this


JoMae

5/18/21